Get Out the Map
“Casual†or “Slob?â€
By Mike & Darlene Jordan July 29, 2011
Some of the most common questions people ask us as they prepare for a vacation are: “What should I pack?â€, and “Will my husband have to wear a tie? He says he won’t go if he has to dress up!â€
With the exception of some of the high-end luxury cruise lines, the need for formal clothes on a cruise has pretty much gone by the wayside. Whether this is a good thing, or not, is still up for debate. Much of that debate has at its center the definition of the word “casual.â€
It wasn’t that long ago that just about every cruise line had just 2 main seatings in their dining rooms. The dining rooms were (and still are) decorated and furnished much like a fine-dining restaurant on land—white tablecloths, wine glasses, waiters in tuxedos, etc. Guests sat at the same time at the same table every night with the same table mates, waiter, and busboy. Most nights were “resort casual,†meaning slacks and a sport shirt for men and a skirt or slacks and blouse for women. Most trips also included one or two “formal†nights that generally meant at least a suit if not a tuxedo for men and a dress or formal gown for women. Jeans were generally frowned upon, and shorts were out of the question.
Then, in the early 2000’s, along came Norwegian Cruise Lines and their “Freestyle Cruising.†Gone were the fixed dining times and with them went many of the dress “codes.â€
“Any time,†“Your Time,†and other quaint names for “dine whenever you want†are now offered on most cruise lines along with fixed dining as an alternative, and the relaxed casual dress atmosphere has spread there, too. Of course all guests have the option of dining at the buffet restaurant on the pool deck at just about any time of day or night, and the basic dress code there is…well…have some clothes on.
All of this brings us back to the definition of “casual.†The word has been relaxed, somewhat to include jeans, for example, as long as they’re not torn or faded. Indeed, we’ve worn jeans in the dining room, primarily on the first or last day of a cruise when bags haven’t arrived at the room, yet, or when bags are packed for the next day’s debarkation.
But when did the word “casual†become synonymous with “slob?â€
On our recent cruise aboard the Norwegian Epic, we were delighted to see that a passenger was denied entry into the main dining room because he was wearing baggy basketball shorts, a tank top and flip flops! He was outraged, but his traveling companions let him know that they agreed with the cruise line. We’re not talking about a kid (not that it’s OK for kids to be slobs). This guy was in his late 20’s, maybe early thirties. Mainly, he was a slob, and his attitude was one of being almost proud of his slobbiness.
It’s not just on a cruise, we see it everywhere. We were having a quick breakfast at McDonald’s the other day, when in walked a family all wearing their pajamas…Mom and kids alike! Mom’s a slob and she’s raising a pack of slobs.
Just a few nights ago one of the news channels did a special report on what people wear to work these days. It pointed out that, for most office jobs, gone are the days of a jacket and tie, let alone a suit. Retailers are allowing clerks to wear shorts, jeans…whatever. We can understand relaxed dress for people with no customer contact, but for people who represent a company in front of their clients, first impressions can make or break a sale.
The report even made mention of job applicants going into interviews wearing shorts and flip flops.
Don’t people care, anymore, about the impression they give to others? And, if they don’t care about that, what else don’t they care about?
Don’t get us wrong…we own “comfysâ€â€¦shorts, t-shirts and even sandals. But we consider leisure travel to be very special, and getting a little dressed up now and then sort of kicks it up a notch, and it feels good to look good for each other. So on our transatlantic cruise aboard the Mariner of the Seas coming up soon, we’ll pack some dressy clothes, and yes…Mike will even wear a tie.
Until next time…get out the map!
Mike and Darlene Jordan are franchisees of CruiseOne., and are based in Southern Colorado. You can contact them at 800-267-7613 or by email at mjordan@cruiseone.com.